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  • 1 Year, 151 Days...

    It has been one year and a hundred fifty one days since Donald Trump became President of The United States and well...kind of a lot has happened. I’ve been interrogating it. I have been driven to madness and then numbness and then back to madness since the kleptocratic narcissist was sworn in and have tried to keep my thoughts about him mostly to myself. This is not about being reticent to have the necessary conversations. It has been about the feeling that it doesn’t really matter what  I think about him. I didn’t vote for him. A whole lot of folks didn’t. But a whole lot of folks did and they knew what they were doing. I don’t buy into the idea that people were hoodwinked nor do I accept the supposition that his presidency is some cosmic accident. Some terrible incomprehensible fluke. Nah. This is the story of America. This is the country revealing itself. I’m not confused. Donald Trump is possible because America the “Beautiful” is not. But whatever. I’m a black girl. I grew up here. My family’s legacy in the Civil Rights Movement taught me everything I needed to know about this country’s “promise.” 

    I am not writing this to overstate the obvious. I am writing this as an exercise in record keeping. See, I am predisposed to disassociation. I’m prolific at it in fact.  My brain is wired to delete. To disremember. It’s how I survived childhood. But I am 44 years old now; three of my four kids are grown, and I am interested in integrating the things that have happened so that I do not fall into the same kind of apathy and historical amnesia that dogs our country. So let’s get started shall we? 

    Donald Trump, reality tv star, real estate mogul, self proclaimed ladies’ man, fervent supporter of the death penalty for five black and brown boys in the Central Park jogger case that rocked New York, despite DNA evidence exonerating them, began his political career with a theory: America’s first African American President was not born in the United States. Sounds pedestrian and imbecilic until you remember that othering the “other” is effective strategy in a country founded on genocidal policies and racism. 

    He gains a lot of traction suggesting Obama is secretly Muslim and keeps that same energy as lead up to formally announcing his candidacy. It works. Scared white folks loved him. He was going to restore America to her rightful owners and in so doing, make her “great again.”  But first he had to let everyone who opposed him know he was not above a low blow. 

    You know, like making fun of a disabled journalist. That was a trip. What was even more trippy was watching his supporters proclaim that that behavior was not a deal breaker. Ok America do your dance. I see you. I should have known right then. But I rested on the idea that you can’t do that kind of shit and ascend to the presidency. I was wrong (obviously). 

    It was a freak show. A smorgasbord of dog whistles to white nationalists and evangelicals who were downright giddy to hear the billionaire describe Mexican immigrants as “bad hombres” and suggest that they are all rapists bringing drugs and crime. Positively giddy do you hear me, to listen to Donald Trump talk about Hillary Clinton’s emails and her husband’s philandering and Obama’s culpability in creating ISIS (you know, because he’s secretly Muslim) and I STILL thought: No way. No way folks are going to elect this unpolished undignified unqualified ahistorical twit. By the way this is not me caping for Obama. He was the drone president. I have too many friends in Palestine to romanticize his legacy. (But at any rate, I was wrong...obviously). 

    Then we had him suggesting that TV journalist Megyn Kelly (who I do not love) must have been on her period for being so hard on him during a debate. 

    Whatever. That’s a go-to diss by all fuckboys. I was unsurprised that he said it. I was however, surprised that it meant nothing to his base (53% of whom were white women and if Megyn Kelly is nothing else she is definitely a white woman.) Didn’t matter. He got elected. Donald Trump, the man who had held no public office, the man who told his supporters at his campaign rallies to “punch the shit” out of protestors saying he would pay the legal fees if they did so...the man who led chants of “Build that wall!” and told everyone Mexico would pay for that wall (though Mexico was quite clear that they would not do so) became president.

    And that’s when shit got ill. 

    My brain can’t retain all of the many many things that transpired immediately following Trump’s election. I do remember the Women’s March against him...

    And the many many protests across the country and around the world...I remember that...

    On and on...folks poured into the streets in refusal to accept the outcome...

    New York, California, Seattle, Colorado, on and on...

    On and on...protestors from everywhere...

    And what does a narcissist do when faced with opposition? They show you who they are. If they’re Donald Trump they institute an illegal Muslim ban...

    Again, my mind goes blank trying to catalogue all of the things that have happened since Trump got elected. I don’t want to talk about his firing of the Attorney General or the FBI Director or how his campaign advisors have been indicted for federal crimes. 

    I do want you to remember that when White Supremacists marched in Charlottesville and a woman was murdered and many protestors were beaten and injured, Donald Trump referred to the white nationalists as “fine people.” I do want you to remember that. 

    I do want you to integrate these images into your memory...

    And this...

    I do want you to have to live with the fact of what happened that day...and every day since. 

    Why? Because its cyclical. Because Trump reveals himself and there are folks who still seem to be uncertain about whether or not he’s actually racist or just placating a racist base. Kids, if I am appealing to racists and passing legislation that makes racists and xenophobes happy, I am performing from racism and am therefore racist. See? The math is simple. Trump is every bit the madman Hitler was. I realize some will regard that as a seismic statement. But where’s the lie? Trump referred to African countries as “shitholes.” Trump said Africans should “go back to their huts.” Trump tried to institute a ban on Muslims. Trump claims White Nationalists are “fine people.” Trump put out a full page ad in the New York Times BEFORE he was President Trump with no racist base to placate, calling for the deaths of five innocent teenage boys of color. And, today, right now, as I type this, there are children being held in cages in makeshift shelters in Texas. Children who have been forcibly separated from their parents and detained because the Trump administration says it has a “zero tolerance policy on illegal immigration.” I won’t go through the deeply ironic and hypocritical components of this policy. I won’t waste your time discussing how Americans are not in a position to ascribe that language to ANYBODY unless they first restore land rights to the indigenous people they stole this country from; the diasporic African Americans who are the ascendants of two hundred years of chattel slavery in this country. If those points don’t feel relevant to you, you’re too stupid a person for me to speak to. You can log off now.

    I have heard a great many people say over the last several days that separating children from their parents isn’t American. But if you are honest, if you are a wise student of history, you know that it is precisely American. (See auction blocks. See internment camps. See Wounded Knee.) There are infants and toddlers being warehoused in Texas right now crying for their mothers. There are mothers and fathers being detained right now, ones who came to legal ports of entry seeking asylum, who don’t know where their children are. More than 2000 children...

    Herded like cattle into cages and “tender age shelters”...

    I think it is important that we confront the kind of terror and mind altering trauma these kids have suffered being wrenched away from their families. I want you to know that this is precisely America. This is how the “dream” happened. It happened via genocide, mass graves, slavery, internment, Jim Crow, mass incarceration, economic disparities, smart bombing, war mongering, colonization, and reservations. Standing Rock was not an anomaly and neither is this. I woke up this morning knowing my spirit can’t survive this country. I woke up this morning seeing the excruciating images of babies in cages and the weight of it in my body feels like war. America has been a democracy in crisis since its inception. It has performed itself on the bones and backs of people of color for centuries. It declares these things policy, law, manifest destiny. It insists on our compliance. It assures us that this is the way it has to be. And I can’t act like I don’t know what I know. I can no more unsee these babies in cages than I can unsee my Guinean great great grandmother on an auction block being sold to the highest bidder. I’m still black. Still woman. Still awake. Still long-memoried. Which is to say, America, you have made of me a wolf. And now I’m hungry. I remember everything. Get ready. 

    Dominique Christina

    June 20, 2018 

  • Bleed On Everything

    (This piece first appeared in Heart and Soul Magazine)

    All Red Everything

    By Dominique Christina


    The disintegration of a culture is a melancholy event. If I grew up in the simple understanding that women were intelligent and vast and magical, it was because I came from a family that demonstrated it everyday. Elderly great grandmother figures and aunties are formidable resources. Southern-bred mamas who made the collard greens taste like inherited memory. It was all so seductive and sublime. But underneath that is something red…something that means resistance; something that is the sound of my name. I didn’t know it for myself until I was twelve years old and started my period.


    My mother, coquettish and ever-brilliant and becoming, had prepared me for the event. I knew to expect it. And I knew what it was supposed to suggest about my body and my readiness for an induction into adulthood. I remember reaching down into my underwear and coming up with bloody fingers one day and walking straight to my mother’s room to show her. She put her arm around me, walked me to the bathroom, and taught me how to use a ridiculously huge maxi pad. I was a woman now? It didn’t compute. I still liked Barbie dolls and climbing trees and this business of blood was just a monthly thing that would require a little more attention to detail and a few more trips to the bathroom. It was not traumatic. An interruption, yes…but not traumatic.

    But then it changed. I was at a school social to commemorate the start of my seventh grade year when it all changed. I remember gossiping with my girlfriends and giggling at all of the inappropriate jokes when there was a sudden and urgent moistness between my legs. I got up, excused myself awkwardly, and ran to the nearest bathroom. It was locked. I waited anxiously at the door and noticed red spots seeping through my shorts. I was frenetic and pounded harder on the bathroom door. Finally, one of my classmates came out, a boy with a wide smile and long eyelashes whom I had been in school with since Kindergarten. He said something slick about me being impatient and “What’s the hurry?” and “Geez are you sick or something?” and as I pushed past him he noticed the blood on my shorts and started cackling. “Oh my God. Got your period huh? You better clean that mess up. You look disgusting.”


    The shame was immediate…and paralyzing. When I closed the bathroom door I could already hear him announcing to the partygoers that I had gotten my period and the subsequent cacophony of laughter and boys making jokes. I stayed in the bathroom a long time. I scrubbed and cried and rinsed and repeated and my embarrassment was thick as gall.


    The year was filled with humiliations like that. I didn’t understand the rules of engagement I guess. While the events at the party made it clear to me that what was happening between my legs was to be met with disgust and ridicule, intellectually I could not understand it. I also could not always remember to fold into the shame well enough to accommodate it.


    Shame is an awful inheritance. And while my mama did not bequeath it me, my classmates sure tried. Still, I know I’m luckier than most. I have talked to scores of women whose mothers threw all kinds of loathsome language around period blood; the kind of language that makes women hate their menses and regard it as some old curse; a thing to hang your head about and curse the machinery of the body that invites bleeding.


    When my daughter started her period, I wanted to offer her a way to reimagine the blood. I threw her a period party. She and I wore matching red scarves. The food was red, the drinks were red, and the salutations to her brand new shedding uterus were boisterous. Her brothers were there too. As were their friends. See, it can’t just be about women and girls integrating this clarity. Men and boys should see how vast and complicated we are too. At first, my daughter was skittish about all of the fanfare around her period but by the end of the night she was levitating. Oh the blood.


    Everything about our bodies is a necessary revolution. I don’t subscribe to any tenet that seeks to undermine the magic of our flesh. There is no system, no religion, no mechanism, and no decree that could ever convince me that menstruation is evidence of me being an accursed thing, a nasty thing, a flawed thing. Misogyny has no rights to the ideas I have about myself. There is no way to topple this cathedral of blood and bone and flesh I got with any such politic. I know I’m mighty. I have split open and given birth to children who will speak of the blood with reverence. They will know menstruation is a ritual…a ceremony of letting go and growing anew. This, is my daughter’s inheritance. I hope she grows up to use her menstrual blood as war paint. I hope she bleeds in the temple. I hope she lets it straighten her spine and strengthen her resolve. I hope the revolution is in fact bloody as hell, led by women in white skirts who will never apologize for renewing themselves every 28 days. I hope my daughter is out front, smiling with all her teeth. I hope she spills her impossible scripture all over the good furniture. And if anyone is ever fool enough to try and shame her with her own biology, I hope she keeps all of the wilderness in her bones, and bleeds on everything they love. Period.

  • Baltimore and Freddie Gray and Why It Matters

    It is difficult to be radical in Denver. We are so privileged here. There’s a Starbucks and a Whole Foods on every corner; and dog parks and community gardens and it’s all so…seductive. It has an almost soporific effect. One can be lulled right to sleep by the idyllic snow-capped mountains and trendy cafes that suggest there is no crisis here. Our hoods aren’t like hoods in Chicago, Detroit, Jersey, parts of New York, New Orleans, St. Louis…Baltimore. No gritty crime drama about the drug trade and the alarmingly high homicide rates in the inner city could ever be filmed here. We are a little too deft with our trash pickups and our gentrification. Let me start near the beginning.


    Mike Brown died. We all got tickets to the show. What I knew after the spectacle of horror that social media alerted us to on that Saturday afternoon in August in Ferguson Missouri was that I could not protect my children. That is an impossibly soul crushing thing to carry. Especially for somebody like me; somebody whose adolescence was punctuated by the slings and arrows of too many rapacious men and boys and all of the tripwire that accompanies growing up black and female. The one thing I felt certain about when I became a mother was that I would become a fortress. I would keep my children safe at all costs. They came from me; matriculated from my simple womb ands burst through this skin brilliantly. Being a woman in a patriarchal society makes you interrogate whether you can keep the softer parts of who you are and still defy the limitations of misogyny, but being a mother makes you a wolf. The way I love my children told me I was woman enough and wolf enough to keep them safe.


    But then Trayvon happened and I felt the ground slipping underneath me. Still, I fought against the despair. I brought my children to rallies that called for Zimmerman’s arrest and I challenged out loud, the notion that Trayvon deserved to be seen as a threat and therefore murdered in the gated community his father lived in. The effort was exhausting and replete with all of the pushback that comes from those whose bodies have never been so undervalued.


    Zimmerman was not convicted. I watched the verdict come in with my children and cried and lamented and then almost instantly felt naïve to hold out hope that our judicial system, the same system that criminalizes black and brown bodies to feed the prison industrial complex, would care about one black boy walking down a road at night who never made it home. A boy my community iconicized in hash tags and hoodies. See, we are so accustomed to being slain; so accustomed to the lynching ritual and the picnics afterward, sometimes the only fight we can manage is a blog post about white America and Facebook posts about the legacy of racism.


    My grandfather was born in 1911. He grew up in the Jim Crow south. He knew all about the spectacle of black bodies dangling from trees, burned alive, castrated and beaten. What I could not personally reconcile was that I was having the same conversations about the same culture of violence that he was having as a boy growing up in the West End of Little Rock, Arkansas. Nothing had changed. Martin Luther King’s magnificent legacy did not result in black people being a protected class. Malcolm X’s unapologetic, larger than life, tell you the truth to your face way of being in the world did not stop the slaughter. Both of those men were cut down by bullets in their prime anyway, which should have been all the evidence the following generations needed that this country is willful about its acts of brutality against black and brown people. If we couldn’t be slaves anymore we could be prisoners. We could be disenfranchised. We could be economically dispossessed. We could be squeezed and starved and relegated to barrios and ghettos that would kill us one way or another anyway. We should have known better. But we couldn’t see it…too much blood in our eyes.


    So Ferguson…it awakened in me the unsurvivable reality that my children could be “legitimately killed.” They could be snatched from me by someone who saw them walking down a road at night and concluded that they were the threat. They were the imposition. Their lives were not valuable. The depression that reached for me was thick. I woke up every morning trying to convince myself that there was still a righteous fight somewhere. That life still held beauty. That I could still love my children seismically and urgently, and protect them from the insistent ugly of the world.


    I don’t want to suggest that this feeling distinguished me from so many others in this country and around the world who felt uproarious about Big Mike’s body lying in the street for more than four hours and I don’t want to suggest that my suffering was somehow more pronounced than other people. I saw Leslie McFadden pleading with police officers to get her boy out of the street…her firstborn. And I saw those same officers tell her to get back behind the police tape. I saw and heard the eruption of rage that interrupted the consciousness of brothers on the block who were all too familiar with police brutality but who nevertheless could not forgive the offense of seeing that child’s body face down in the street. I carried the death of Mike Brown hard. I still do. I can’t think about him for too long without gnashing my teeth. I can’t think too long about the fact that my own firstborn son stayed up every single night all summer long watching CNN trying to understand what world this is. And I am his mother so it is incumbent upon me to do something, right? To get in between my child and the horror...but how do I do that? What does my fight look like? How can I arm him? I didn’t know.


     What I do know is that somewhere in the course of grieving for a boy I had never met, killed in a town I had never heard of, was that I was starting to deny my children affection. I didn’t think it was wise to love them up close. I might lose them after all. I died a thousand times just carrying that thought.


    At some point I did get up. School started up again. Lunches needed to be made. Field trips needed to be planned for. Mike Brown was not entering college but my youngest was starting Kindergarten. I had to have enough daylight in my body to acknowledge that. I couldn’t stop mothering just because I was unsure how to do it without defeat attached to it. Life, or something like it, went on.


    There was an empty I kept though. Writing elegiac poems about these murdered sons was not sufficient. It was not the revolution I wanted; the revolution that was required. It was too convenient. Too safe. Too academic. I didn’t want to be guilty of that. I was looking for an opening; a way forward; a blueprint. How do I respond rather than react?


    Many months later I got word that, Anthony Grimes, a friend of mine was going to be at a vigil being staged at a police station in Aurora because a black man had just been killed by officers in the middle of the day just a stone’s throw away from an elementary school. This particular man was not a man that was easy to advocate for. He had warrants and an extensive history of assault and domestic violence and had done a significant amount of time in prison. Still, he had been killed and when you choose to stick your chin out over your feet against extrajudicial killings you don’t really get to compartmentalize or choose which victims are deserving of your outrage. Even ex cons, even felons, even unsavory characters don’t deserve to be murdered at the hands of police without just cause.


    I am notoriously opposed to marches and rallies because it has always feels like the pantomime of action to me. A lot of smoke and noise and signs and songs and 28 hours later another one of us is killed so my cynicism, while admittedly significant, is not without merit or historical context. But I had friends that were going to be there; friends that had gone to Ferguson and Palestine over the summer and had become activated by the over-muscled need to defend against such violence. For these reasons, I decided to attend the vigil and support them.


    When I got there I saw many other community leaders gathered around the family of the man recently killed by Aurora PD. I could see the grief and rage. I could see the need to do something about what was happening and it mirrored my own need.


    Weeks later, I was in a hotel in Chicago having just performed at the University of Illinois when the Baltimore uprising lifted off. I had been thinking about Freddie Gray, the young man who was illegally detained by Baltimore City police, roughed up and then subsequently brutalized in the back of a police van that resulted in 80% of his spine being severed from his neck, resulting in his death days later. I was seized by grief and levitating with rage from it all. I walked down to the lobby at the Hilton Hotel the day Freddie Gray was buried and saw young black people throwing rocks and bricks at police officers dressed in riot gear. It rocked me. I watched them climb on top of patrol cars and smash the windows with their feet. I saw them cuss officers and throw tear gas canisters back toward the line of police who were grossly outnumbered and outmatched by the sheer will and rancor of young folk who were done with the slow suicide of starvation and poor schools and miles and miles of boarded up row homes, (the evidence of Wells Fargo’s sub-prime lending practices and the foreclosures that threw so many black families into chaos), and the absence of recreation centers and resources, and the brutal practices of overseers who donned police uniforms and went looking for black men to criminalize, beat up, and murder. These young people were done.


    I was captivated…and inspired. I’m sure that statement will make some people question whether or not we can continue to be relative to each other. How could I be proud of “looters?” Why would I ever support violence and the burning of buildings? I will tell you how. I am unwilling to keep waiting for America to count us in, to keep killing us and then vilifying us in death. I am tired of America’s violence being the inheritance of historically and contemporarily marginalized people who, when we finally erupt, are told to give peace a chance, and wait on the lord. I am tired of our anger being delegitimized. I am tired. Dog tired.


    I hopped a plane to Baltimore along with local Denver activist Anthony Grimes, Corean, an 18 year old high school student and Kamau, a student at Howard university; two young people who have more courage and clarity than I ever did at their age. When we got into the city the first thing that assaulted us was the sight of tanks and the national guardsmen holding assault rifles, and cops, undercover and otherwise, peppering the steps of the capitol and hanging out in parks, watching more than a thousand protestors insist on justice. We got into things right away. That’s why we were there. We listened to the speeches, avoided CNN, talked to folks whose daily reality was the chaos we were seeing, and then finally made our way to meet with Reverend Sekou who was introduced into the consciousness of so many because of the role he played during the unrest in Ferguson. He was in Baltimore standing with the people there as well as conducting a series of civil disobedience trainings. He told us about the experience he and others had the night before when the police started cracking skulls once it was curfew, a curfew that was instituted after Baltimore City Attorney Marilyn Mosby gave a precedent setting press conference announcing that she was going to prosecute all six officers for the untimely death of Freddie Gray.


    Sekou warned us that if we were going to stay outside and deliberately defy the curfew, that we would need to be careful. We had not yet determined what we were going to do. We just wanted to be useful and needed to spend some time figuring out how to do that.


    We went back out to North and Penn, the location that was the epicenter of the “rioting” just days before and when we got there we saw grassroots organizations getting kids to paint and Anonymous handing out various anti-capitalism pamphlets, and Black Israelites and anarchists and the Nation of Islam and churches and on an on. We parked our car and as we were passing a basketball court I noticed three young boys shooting hoops. I walked on to the court and spoke to the littlest that I later learned was five years old. I asked him if I could play with him. He looked at me hard and said, “You sure?” “Yes!” I replied. “I’m sure. Shoot the ball.” At the same time, Anthony and Kamau dropped their backpacks filled with water bottles and Maalox and gas masks, and all of the accouterment of guerilla warfare, and started playing with the two older boys. We did this for more than an hour. It was 8:30pm when we started winding down. I asked the five year old, who told me to call him “Meek Meek” if he was bothered by all of the chaos and he said he didn’t think about it. I asked him if he liked school and he said he had not been able to go on account of his teacher getting shot and the National Guard coming in. He asked me if I liked to shoot. I thought we were talking about basketball, so I said, “Yeah man, I shoot around sometimes but volleyball was my thing.” He said, “Nah. Do you like to shoot?” And then I realized we were talking about guns.


    “Yes…I do know how to shoot, Meek Meek.” I said. “What gun you like best?” He asked. “Um…I like a 45.” I said, feeling strange about having a conversation like this with a child a year younger than my own baby. He looked at me and said, “Oh that means you know how to shoot. I like a 9. No kickback on it.” And see, that is the distance your consciousness has to travel to understand Baltimore and how mighty the people there are, how warrior they have had to be. Theirs is a life that has to be muscled through. But be clear: during our time in Baltimore I didn’t meet a single victim. Not one. The politics of oppression are not always about the breaking and the broken. Sometimes it’s about the breaking and the undeniably unbroken. That doesn’t mean there are no bruises. It certainly doesn’t mean there are no casualties. There are so very many casualties. Those battle lines are drawn in this country over and over again and whether you will survive in spite of or because of is largely about your melanin content, your zip code, and your gender.


    We said goodbye to the boys and it was hard to say goodbye. I fell in love with Meek Meek, the five year old who had the best shot out there and who looked longingly at me when I told him I had to go. I have thought about him every single day since the day I met him. I wonder if he is ok. I wonder if they opened his school, if he is getting at least two square meals again (because when they closed the schools in Baltimore they denied 85% of the children in those schools, food since they rely on the Free and Reduced Lunch program.) I wonder if he knows how much he meant to me. And I wonder how I can see him again.


    North and Penn at night was not what it was during the day. During the day it almost felt like a block party; like Juneteenth. Loud music, a DJ, people dancing, laughing, strategizing. But while that was happening, a militarized police force was surrounding us on all sides, watching everything we did. At night though, we could feel the shift in energy. Something was going to happen. You just knew that.


    Joseph Kent suddenly walked to the middle of the street, bullhorn in hand, and started asking people to join him. Joseph is a fiery, prominent young activist who captured the attention (and concern) of many people when someone videotaped him being swept away by riot police just three nights earlier. But there he was, big as ever, leading us in a chant:


    I got a feelin…I got a feelin brother…I got a feelin…somebody’s tryin’ to hold us back, and there ain’t gonna be no stuff like that….”


    We started following him as he led us in a march away from North and Penn and toward the inner harbor. We walked for about forty minutes. When Anthony checked his watch it was 9:30pm. Curfew was at 10pm. We knew getting back to our car by curfew was going to be tough. We were trying to decide whether we were going to stop right then and turn back when an 11-year-old kid walked up to me and asked if I was going to stay out there with him. He said he defied the curfew the night before and had witnessed police officers beating people once the clock struck ten. I asked him how he managed to escape and he said, “You just gotta know how to move.” Then looked at me again and said, “So…are you staying out with me or not?” “Of course I am.” I said. “No way are you gonna outlast me. If you are out here then we are too.” I continued and Anthony readily agreed. The kid looked at all of us and grinned then walked over to Anthony and asked if he could borrow his gas mask. Anthony accommodated him. The kid immediately put it on and kept marching.


    Minutes later a CNN correspondent walked over to us and asked me if I was willing to talk to them. I am sure they were captivated by me walking shoulder to shoulder with a kid in a gas mask, but I also think they surveyed the crowd and determined that our crew would be the most “user-friendly.” Maybe I’m projecting but that’s how it felt to me. I looked at Anthony for direction and Anthony said, “No. We are not interested” and that was that. CNN’s coverage of Baltimore was abysmal and divisive and misleading anyway so that choice was the one with the most integrity, I think.


    At ten minutes ‘til 10, riot police started moving in along with helicopters hovering overhead shining bright lights down on all of us. A tank pulled up on our right side essentially pinning us in. We couldn’t go back because the riot police were behind us. We couldn’t go right because the tank was there. We couldn’t reasonably go much more forward because we could see a line of officers already lined up behind their shields ahead. Suddenly there was an announcement over a loud speaker that curfew was imminent and that soon we would be in violation of it. The anxiety from the crowd was palpable. There were some white boys in Guy Fawkes masks rolling around on skateboards flipping cops off, there were others in gas masks trying to advise us, one lanky brother was moving through the crowd telling us to stay together by any means necessary. He was so frenetic it made me nervous. He was telling everyone to calm down but he himself was electric with worry and you could see it in him.


    A second announcement came that it was three minutes until curfew and Anthony, Corean, Kamau and I were walking with our arms linked trying to quickly determine which way we were going to go. The lanky brother full of frenzy was passing by people, touching them on the shoulder ands telling them to remain calm. When he got to me he didn’t touch my shoulder, offer advice and keep going, but instead, put himself in front of me and put one hand on my breast and the other on my…ahem… baby box, and said “I wanna make sure YOU are safe.” It shocked me. Anthony told him to watch his hands, (I learned later that Anthony did not see that this young man had decided to molest me before the cops jumped on us. He just saw him being too close to me and didn’t like it.) I offer that part of the story only because what followed was so traumatizing, I actually forgot I had been molested until much later when we were all safely back at the hotel, debriefing our experience. For me to forget something like that is seismic. It means that what the cops put me through made that act seem insignificant. Oh trauma, you wanton bitch…


    When it was 10pm the pepper spray came. Along with sirens and flashing lights and cops running after us with their guns out. People were screaming and fleeing and in my mind there was only one place to go that did not have the apparent presence of police. Down a dark side street to the left, which is where we went. We ran. We ran and felt all of the terror our ancestors must have felt when the slavers came, when the paddy rollers came, when the only thing in your head is NO. YOU WILL NOT TOUCH ME. It was an old feeling. It is a dangerous knowing.


    We dipped into the projects. We didn’t plan on it. We had no plan except to get the hell away from the same old hands that have been chasing us for centuries. We went where we saw an opening. We found ourselves in a dark courtyard. There was no one around. I saw two chairs in front of someone’s apartment and suggested that we sit down in them and pretend to be at home. I figured they were looking for people who were running, people who were scurrying, people who appeared to have no belonging. I pulled one of the chairs out and at that moment, a fair skinned black woman with a stern face opened her door and asked us what was going on. Corean told her that we were running from police officers that meant to harm us; so many people had been harmed already. The woman told Corean to go inside then looked hard at me, Kamau and Anthony. Corean is a petite, baby-faced beauty, but Kamau is a young black man who, in that moment had a wild in his eyes having run from riot police, Anthony is 6’4” and undeniably black and I, myself, am 6 feet tall. The woman looked at each one of us for a moment more and then opened her door wide and said “Go inside. But you be careful coming in my house because I don’t know you.” She let us stay there until it was safe to get away.


    The kid in the gas mask we were walking with was arrested. Joseph Kent, the dazzling young activist, was arrested by the very officers who were telling him as we were marching that they would NOT do so. I saw a girl who looked to be about 13 years old, clotheslined by a cop as she was running away from riot police. Her head hit the pavement hard. I keep hearing her screams in my head and the terrible smack of her head crashing onto the concrete. Things CNN didn’t show you. I saw police officers snatching people off of their porches, their own front porches, and putting them in police wagons because of that ridiculous curfew. I saw it. I never saw the media seek to have the relevant conversations. I never saw them really expose and condemn the officers who kept the media safely behind the caution tape while they pepper sprayed people for exercising their rights as human beings before snatching them down to the ground by their hair and dragging them on their faces. Instead, I saw media talking to protestors about the burned out CVS and the legitimacy of defying the curfew without ever interrogating how criminal it was to issue that curfew in the first place and the way it squeezed and oppressed a community already rocked with appropriate grief and rage.


    I should tell you about the “write-in” we went to the next day at a church for high school aged students who were there to talk about what was happening in their city. I should tell you that as well meaning as the organizers were who put the event on, none of them lived in the city. They lived in the suburbs. I should tell you that the kids who were in attendance (about 12 of them) came from private schools and therefore, could not really talk from the inside of things the way 5 year old Meek Meek could. Still, writing is a meditation. It is a balm and a blessing and in that regard what happened in that room was still important.


    We went to a barbecue after that being held at the Gilmore Homes where Freddie Gray was arrested. We stood in the exact spot where Freddie was tackled and abused by Baltimore Police where a memorial now announces the birth and death dates of Freddie, spray painted on a brick wall with a halo over Freddie’s name. We met the man who videotaped Freddie’s arrest on that fateful day, who is a part of a group called Cop Watch. We saw Amy Goodman from Democracy Now interviewing the residents too and we ran into three brothers from Ferguson who had also flown in to offer their support. We saw the residents of the Gilmore Homes with their kids who were finger painting, playing touch football and rolling around on tricycles. They talked about Freddie and how they saw him everyday. They talked about a place called Mama’s that had been set on fire; a fire the police claimed was started by gang members but according to residents, was set by the officers themselves. We heard many stories like that.


    How the Baltimore Police Department claimed a “group of criminals” set fire to a trash can and then an independent journalist who was on the scene said on twitter that, in fact, the fire was set by a grenade thrown by the Baltimore Police that landed in that trash can, setting it ablaze.


    I guess maybe that’s why I have decided to write all of this down. It is the acknowledgement that those in power always describe us as thugs and monsters, looters and thieves, rioters and hoodlums and if we do not challenge that narrative, if we do not stand up and tell our stories, the people in power get to keep killing us and claiming that we deserved it. Without the truth, they get to disappear us, they get to stop us about a tail light and then shoot us in the back, plant evidence and claim we threatened their lives; they get to arrest us because we made eye contact with them, beat us, hogtie us, and then throw us into a police van on our stomachs, unbelted, handcuffed and bruised to be thrashed against a metal partition until our spine is severed. No. I am a mother to children who will outlive me. They will occupy their bodies brilliantly and without apology. They will inherit a world that does not shrug with indifference when people die, when the state sanctions that violence and then lies to cover it up. They are deliberately black. Unbroken. Unkillable. And as long as my heart is beating I will wake up every morning and work long into the night making that the reality for us all. How could I not? I met a five year old and an eleven year old who are willing to do as much. And while I got to get on a plane two days later and leave hell, nothing in me will ever pretend I didn’t see what I saw, know what I know and go back to the convenience of dog parks and manicured lawns and let them stay there and burn.



    Dominique Christina, MA, M.Ed

    Author, Agitator, Freedom Rider